Step 1
Reference Their Questions
Qulo's advantage: Send a personalized message based on their answers to your questions.
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Step 2
Avoid Generic Messages
Generic messages like 'Hi', 'How are you?' don't get attention. Comment on a specific detail.
Step 3
Ask Open-Ended Questions
'Yes/no' questions kill conversation. Ask open-ended questions like 'what do you think about...?'
Step 4
Be Authentic
Don't pretend. Be natural, sincere and authentic. Let them get to know the real you.
Step 5
Suggest Meeting
Suggest meeting after a few days of chat. The longer you text, the less likely you'll meet.
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